OH-EM-GEE!

.... I think I have a Scientology advertisement in my blog right? Am I right?? Just look to the..... right! DAMMMNNNNNN!! Haha. I don't really care actually. I was even curious and clicked on the ad. It's really amazing how they are advertising religion nowadays. No more by word of mouth or miraculous things you see, rather just on cyberspace. Well, anything to get the message across =)

Anyway, my past week: SICK. It's horrible I don't know why I keep getting sick. First sore throat, fever and then flu. I'm finally recovering now. Even went to the gym. Yay! =) I was thinking... I'm getting sick so often because people were calling me fat, and my (sensitive) body's reaction was to just fall sick *horror* I think that's my body's usual reaction to mean words like that. So, you know who you are, stop calling me fat girl! =P and to all my 'sick' kaki's out there (Rach, Suet Ling and Uncle Brian), get well soon!! Ing Chang better be careful cause you were in contact with ALL THREE!!! haha.

Of course the other theory is also that we all have swine flu. Rachael's (PIG) attempt to dominate the world it seems. Well my dear, I really hope that I'm not having it. haha. Cause I was just chatting with a friend last night, Sham, and he told me swine flu is mild compared to normal influenza. Mine was quite mild. Hmmm. So anyone dare to see me now? =P

So sooooo, Rach is coming back, I'm looking forward to another huge, ginormous get-together with Notts Malaysian Campus friends and classmates! And hopefully the ever-so-busy cow can make it too! =) It's almost been a year since we met up for our farewell Rach!! Rememberrrrrr???? Time flies! Well, have a safe flight and tell me when you're coming to KL again please!! I'm getting old. But not really any wiser though. Such a weirdo =P

And people, I'll blog more once I can go out =) Amelia and Han Hung, thanks for taking the pics and posting them on Facebook.

Melongyoulongtime

xoxo

p.s. I'm really really craving for more Gossip Girl! Can't wait for summer to be over! Just so I can watch it again!

Sick again!!!!!

I'm getting sick physically as often as guys get sick in the head. not very healthy =(

The Asshole Philosophy

I was going through my friend Harvind's blog and came across this whole philosophy. Very very interesting I think =P What do you think about it?



Quoted from unknown source on Angelfire:

"It’s amazing that assholes can get girls. Actually, now that I think of it, it’s not that amazing. They are assholes at heart, but to meet girls they lavish their undying love. IT’S A CHARADE. They act nice, friendly, and they listen… until they get into what they’re after. Their prey thinks they are in love with them, however when they realize what assholes their predators really are, they pretend like the asshole is really nice inside. The girl tries to change the asshole into a nice guy, but assholes will always be assholes. She gets upset and goes to the nice guy to complain about the asshole. But she claims to love the asshole… now this is where the theory begins. She doesn’t want to look like she is easy so she wont dump the asshole right away, instead she will stay with the asshole. Girls are idiots. They don’t realize that the nice guy has been there all along. He never had to pretend to be a good guy to get girls because he is naturally like that. However, girls don’t see it for some reason or another. They look at the nice guy as a friend, a trusted companion to whom they can tell their sad story to about their asshole boyfriend.

The problem is that since he is a nice guy he keeps listening. Since girls get attached to things that pay attention to them, they think of the nice guy as a friend. A FRIEND. They don’t say, “Oh he’s hot” or “I want to have his children” about the nice guy, they just want the emotional support. When they get the emotional support from the nice guy, they don’t need it from the asshole. The nice guy gets the shit end of the stick while the asshole gets all the action. I am starting to wonder if being a nice guy is really the route to take to get action… I have been down this path for all of my post-pubescent life and it has gotten me NOWHERE… at least not in the women department.

Perhaps another reason why girls fall for the asshole is because assholes ignore the girl they are with. The women wonder, “Why isn’t he paying attention to me?” so they explore why. They poke and prod and get closer to the asshole. They start to get easier with each attempt to get closer. The asshole finally says, “I’ve let this beauty dangle long enough, time to boat this bass”. It is then he puts on his charade and the girl feels like she has won him… even thought all she has won is an asshole.

Once you have gone down the path as a nice guy or a “listener” you can’t turn back. The girl will always go after the assholes because there are always nice guys there to listen. Once you realize that you are a “listener” you cant do anything about it… just pack up and close shop. There is and never will be a situation where the nice guy will get the girl he has a crush on. It just doesn’t work like that. The girl wont “come to her senses” and realize what an asshole her boyfriend is like in the movies… instead she will just go after another asshole, and unless you stop being a nice guy, she will never go after you. Women complain that there are no nice guys in the world. Right. They are obviously not looking hard enough because there are nice guys EVERYWHERE!!!! Girls aren’t looking for nice guys… they say they are but they’re not. They are looking for the perfect asshole, but there is NO SUCH THING as the perfect asshole.

All in all, the nice guy gets the shaft. To all the girls out there with boyfriends that don’t treat you with respect, that don’t listen to you, and that don’t care about you I say this; look around. You're just blind because every girl has at least one nice guy around them. He is what you want your asshole to be like. He knows more about you than you know about yourself… because he has listened to it all."

p.s. Harvind, please don't sue me for taking it straight from your blog. heehee =P

meloveyoulongtime

xoxo

Birthdays!

So, I've been back in Malaysia for almost 3 weeks now. Time flies I tell you. Next thing you know, we're all getting married and having kids. Well the past three weeks in Malaysia have been awesome! Met up with family and friends - good times. Although I do miss friends back in Nottingham - cow and pig, when are we meeting up in KL again??? Miss my UNCLE BRIAN too. It's his bday today! HAPPY HAPPY BIRTHDAY! hey you should be honoured I'm actually writing this in my blog. I'm even gonna have a picture of you here =)


Still my favourite picture of you =)

....and also HAPPY BIRTHDAY rat! (aka Dhayana Sena)


Missing you a LOT!

And well, if you didn't know already, my birthday was last week, so we had a few celebrations =) Pictures are worth a thousand words right. I'll let mine do the talking =P








Just keep swimming, just keep swimming...


My grandmothers =)




FAMILY






Dinner with the girls (and GUY)


Ben












'Chubby legs, hobbit feet' (Zanker 2009) *sticks out tongue*


Cuties

That's a whole summary on my summer holidays so far. Will be keeping you updated!

Han Hung! Pictures of that night please!! I don't have your faces here! haha =)

Oh and btw, I'm hooked onto Pet Society. James, you will NEVER beat me in THAT =P

meloveyoulongtime

xoxo

I'll be back =P

Wow. Time flies. In a week's time, I'll be back in Malaysia for the whole of the summer break! And. I. have. no. idea. what i wanna do for three whole freaking months!

Well, obviously, first of all, I wanna meet up with family, and friends. Steph, we better meet up every single day when you're back =) Ben, you will have to pick me up if you wanna go for drinks =P PY, Shal, the usual group, we have to, have to meet up. Let's go for pool game like the old days. heehee. I wanna meet the Music Makers gang as well. See the little kids! Well they've probably grown in a year now! Oooh and visit ex-colleagues. AND NOTTINGHAM people! Wherever you guys are, come back to KL and meet up with me =) .....and, whoever I forgot to mention here.

I'll update you guys about everything PERSONALLY. no way im putting everything here on the blog. hehe. too lazy to type. So, see all you people back in Malaysia =)

xoxo

I wish I'm not that lazy to update my blog, then at least I would be updating you guys with every single thing. But nooooo, I am too lazy, so I'm just gonna tell you what happened today, cause my Uncle Brian inspired me to blog =) Just for today.

Well, NOT surprisingly, I went shopping again today. Heehee. Got myself a miniskirt, well my aunt eventually bought it for me cause I'm SUCH a good girl =p And got two dresses. Cats Whiskers was on sale. Couldn't resist. I love shopping. I don't care where I shop, I just love buying new things. It can be a bag from PETALING STREET or a dress from ZARA. Either way, it's exhilarating. I think I have to watch 'Confessions of a Shopaholic' again and again for constant reminders of what I actually NEED and DO NOT NEED. OK, enough about my shopping indulgence.

I can't believe I'm into High School Musical 3 songs! I watched the movie in the plane back to Malaysia, and got hooked onto the songs, especially when my sister started playing them on her laptop =) Now I've got it on my laptop. So beware, Newark Hall neighbours!! Haha!

Well, other than shopping and just chilling at home or with family and friends, I have been eating! A lot! I actually have a tummy now. Not. Cool. At. All. Not that I didn't have one before, but now it's just bigger =( And I still refuse to go to the gym. OR do tummy exercises. I think when I get back to UK I'll be losing weight again. Hopefully. So cowcow don't cook such nice food for us please =) haha!

oh yessss people, I think by now, you should know I'm back in Malaysia right? =) Just for a month, going back on the 20th of this month. That's like less than 2 weeks =( I'm sorry my special friend, "BENTAN". I know you 'merajuk' haha. Please please tell me when you're free next. If we really can't meet, then so be it. I'll be back in June! Heehee. Anywayz, I'm getting lazy to type already. Just gonna post a few pictures and I'm done. And Yit Ling is annoying me on Skype. I'd better go.

Lunch with the family.

Look! My cousins who are 6 years younger than me! PRETTY TALL! I'm so short =(

Wei Hong wanted to be a girl.

He tried every single hair band his sister had.

He finally did what a boy normally does, but even so, that bloody GameBoy was PINK.

Haha. Wei Hong AND my hair pin =)

The UNMC Surprise. Chern Ta using my camera to camwhore.

Chatting with friends after surprising them =)

He made me put it on my forehead too. But he doesn't know the existence of the 'erase image' function in my camera. HEHE.

Another outing with grandma =)

Alright. I know I said a few. But I think that was a lot. haha. The rest will be on Facebook. Ok I'm gonna start doing something productive now. Like TRY to study.

meloveyoulongtime <3

xoxo

PROTON

I heard from my mom that there's a new Proton (car) coming out soon. It seems it's popular that people have been booking it even before it's being launched. So I searched for it on the net and came across its advertisement. Their statement was just awesome.

"You'll be amazed to know it's a Proton"

The whole statement above speaks for itself. I have absolutely no comments. Haha. Proton OH PROTON.

On a brighter note, I'm getting better. That means no more sleeping like a pig =) I need to, NEED to study alreadyyyyyy!!!!! Can't help it, it's the spring break! it's a BREAK right? im supposed to just chillax. SIGH. I don't care haha im gonna watch another Stephen Chow movie now.

xoxo

meloveyoulongtime =)